Why is it that some people always seem to get what they want in life, and some people never seem able to have what they truly desire? If you are one of those "have nots", or if you are looking to more consistently get what you desire then you will benefit from learning how to systematically create your life the way you want it. You do this by changing the way you think, about everything!
Every choice in your life is based on the degree of love you will allow yourself to choose with each moment. Let's take a moment and use a simple technique to find out how much love we are even allowing ourselves to take in. On a piece of paper draw a number line from 0 to 10. On the number line draw a dot on the spot on the number line that represents how much love you allow yourself to take in. After you have drawn your line, and your dot you can read on.
Was your Love Reseptivity Number high or low? Perhaps it was somewhere in the middle? What does that say about the thoughts we are telling ourselves each day on the inside? The thoughts you choose have a vibration and together moment by moment set the course for the realization of your desires. The problem is that we were never really properly taught how to most productively think. We've been doing it all wrong.
The majority of our time is spent on thinking about the lack of what we have, and how we will fix this state of lacking what we desire. This, however, is not a productive use of the way the universe works. Creation in this universe propels our thoughts outward. So if we are thinking about lack, then that is what gets propelled outward, and so that is what we will attract.
Buddha said it thousands of years ago, and it's still true today, " We are what we think. With our thoughts we make our world". Our thoughts have a power that we are only now coming to understand in the West. Our thoughts are not just in our imagination, but they are real physical events, with physical properties and reactions. Our thoughts form real neurological pathways in our brain, and cause actual chemicals to flow though out our bodies. Thoughts generate all our emotions, and set the course for each moment of our day. That's powerful stuff! Especially if our thoughts are working against our greatest good.
Science is finally able to show us that many of our spiritual teachings correlate with hard facts. For example, scientists can demonstrate that the brain takes our thoughts and builds neural nets. The more we think a thought, the stronger the neural net gets. As we change our thoughts the old neural nets break apart, and new ones form. It is estimated that each of us has 100 billion neurons in complex arrays inside of us. There are around 100 trillion connections among them and an almost infinite number of paths that neural signals can traverse.
Science can now show us that matter is not solid, and that time does not exist. It has revealed to us by way of quantum physics that we are not separate from anything in the universe, and in fact we are made of the same particles , and that each of these particles have consciousness.
So you see that we are interconnected with everything. Some call it a sea, some call it a web, or grid. Although the names differ the idea is the same. Everything is connected and everything is made up of the same things. The only difference between things is the rate at which they vibrate. This can also be called the object's frequency. That means that, for example the chair you sit in is made of the same subatomic particles as you are. The only difference is that you are vibrating within a range of human frequencies, and the chair is vibrating within a range of chair frequencies.
Learning to harness these vibrations is what becoming a creator is all about. It is absolutely possible to choose the vibrations we want to set our frequencies at, and there by attract similar vibrations to us. Desired vibrations will bring desired people, goals, and events into our life. We do this by learning the Law of Attraction. As we think, we feel. As we feel, we vibrate. As we vibrate, we will attract.
To accomplish this you need to master a few steps. First you must learn how to send out your thoughts, without blocking them consciously, or unconsciously. Second you will need to learn how to properly allow the return of that energy, without blocking it consciously or unconsciously.
I have developed a formula for doing this called C=IA2.This is simply:
Creation = Intention x Attraction x Allowance
When you are doing these three things you will be in alignment and your energy will flow. It cannot help but do so. Step One is Set your Intention. This is the first, and most important step. As you set your intention, your body will respond in kind. Our bodies are remarkably pliable. As the messages in our brains change, so do the receptors inside our brains. Science has shown us that receptors in the brain change according to the chemical messages that are produced. New pathways are made in the brain in response to new thoughts, and intentions.
Step Two is Attraction. Watch as the universe attracts things to you by matching your vibration and frequency. Much like you find a radio station by finding its frequency location on the radio dial. There is no work for you to do at this stage. Your intention is already on a course back to you.
Step Three is Allow the return of that energy, without blocking it. Do not judge what form the universe sends your energy back as. If it was not what you intended all it means is that you need to set the vibration of your asking higher. Examine the intention for lack. For example, an intention for losing 50 pounds, might be better stated as an intention for attaining your ideal body weight. As soon as you ask for something, the universe is already sending it to your door. But you must open the door to receive it. Otherwise it will sit on your stoop and gather dust!
You can see that this is a simple task, yet an extremely intricate skill to develop. All too often, misguided, or poorly formed thoughts yield negative outcomes for us. Which we wallow in and thus project out even more intensely. It is easy to see how a snowball effect can get started. We then call it a "string of bad luck" or "a period of depression", but the causes are the same.
The good news is that we can derail any snowball anytime that we stop feeding it thoughts. All we have to do is simply begin to nurture new thoughts. When we do this we set in motion completely new outcomes that will come to us. I look at it as, stuff's going to come to us whether we are consciously choosing it or not, but if I choose, than I can select among the best outcomes, instead of taking whatever happens to come along.
There is a skill to picking Intentions. You have to choose one specific intention and 2 or 3 sub intentions to sort of boost the intention off the ground. Look at the example below:
Intention: I want to understand my purpose in life.
Sub Intentions: I want to make more of a difference in the world.
I want greater self knowledge.
I seek a closer relationship with spirit.
Once you have chosen an intention, and allowed for the return of your asking, remember that it does not end here. New wantings will sprout from answered intentions. This is the energy that powers all of our destinies. This new world is a sea of potentials. We can create with it whatever we want to be, do, or have. We no longer have to dwell in the world of our lack, constantly fighting thoughts about what we don't have yet. You can spend a lifetime there. Most of the world has. Our graveyards are filled with people who were proficient at thinking thoughts of lack, and turning them into actions of lack. Some well intentioned intentions falling short, for the simple fact that the thought sprang from lack, instead of from a higher vibration such as love.
In this new world of infinite possibilities, all intentions are based on love. Love of one's self, and love for all others in your universe. You understand that we are all one, and that because we are all one being, what I do for me, I do for you and what I help you do for yourself, I do for me. Welcome to the new world!
Kazi Kearse PsyD., has a doctorate in Psychology, and will be using his knowledge of Bio Psychology, and African Shamanism for his upcoming book "You Are The Creator - A guidebook for becoming the creator of your universe". He is a licensed Mental Health Counsleor, and a Clinical Member of the American Mental Health Counselors Association. He is a certified Hypnotherapist and has been involved in combining the fields of psychology and science with spirituality for over 20 years.
Dr. Kearse can be contacted for private appointments at 516-375-2869 or email: drkearse@optonline.net. You may also learn more about him at http://www.kazikearse.com/ .